Okay, I need to talk about Yuan Songzhi because this man is EVERYTHING and I am HERE for it. Let me set the scene: he gets drugged by the female lead (who is literally the villain in disguise), ends up in a compromising situation with the transmigrator, and his FIRST instinct isn't to take advantage or get angry — it's to HELP HER FIND BUTTONS. Like, bro, you just had the most intense ten minutes of your life and your priority is tidying up her clothes? That is the most wholesome, awkward, endearing thing I have ever read.
And then he proposes to her. Not because he's some chauvinistic creep, but because he says 'this incident was aimed at me, and I dragged you into it. I will take responsibility.' He lays out his salary, his living situation, his disability pension — all on the spot, like a man who has already processed this and made a decision. That's not desperation, that's integrity.
But what really got me is how he reacts when she says 'maybe we don't need to marry.' His response? He grabs her wrist hard enough to hurt and says 'Stop! What are you doing!' The possessiveness, the panic, the fact that he CARED about her safety more than his own reputation — I am deceased. This man has layers. He's a disabled veteran with an iron rice bowl job, a good reputation in the brigade, and apparently zero interest in Lin Limei despite her schemes. He's the kind of man who would actually be a good husband, and the fact that Su Xiaoyin is considering NOT marrying him just makes me want to shake her.
Also, the dynamic where he carries her down the mountain and is SILENTLY ANGRY but she has no idea why because she literally just rolled down a hill? That's not anger, that's concern disguised as grumpiness. Classic. I love it.